Playing Well With Others

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Join us on Zoom for a Tool Shed Book Club discussion of this book on Sunday, April 11, 2021 at 5:00pm Central Time!

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Playing Well With Others

Join us on Zoom for a Tool Shed Book Club discussion of this book on Sunday, April 11, 2021 at 5:00pm Central Time!

Book club meetings are hosted by the Tool Shed staff, and we pick different readings based on group interests. Participants are welcome on a drop-in basis; a monthly commitment is not necessary. Please join us!  We will post the Zoom link to the virtual meeting on our events page and on our Facebook events page shortly before the event begins.

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Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities

by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams

While plenty of other books explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book devoted to kink culture-- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.

You'll learn to:

  • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires
  • Ease your way into established communities
  • Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities
  • Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you
  • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory
  • Negotiate for play and aftercare
  • Go back to the "world at large" without ruffling feathers
  • …and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?!

The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.

9780937609583, paperback

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