Adventures with Submissive Men in the World of Femdom
By Joyce Snyder
This memoir reveals the world of femdom: dominant females and the submissive guys who crave them. Joyce Snyder encounters dozens of subs, fellows who want to be used and abused at the hands of a powerful woman. She finds a multitude of men, typically living a secret life, throughout America, and discovers their erotic preference (submitting to the superior domme) is more prevalent than she'd imagined. The author, a 60-year-old, cat-loving spinster, would never have become a lifestyle domme (only pro dommes are paid) were it not for her latest work assignment editing a magazine for submissive men. To research her audience, she investigates femdom (as female domination is called in popular culture). Certain that she's discovered her true nature, Joyce begins experimenting with various facets of female domination. She begins interacting with submissive men-- teasing, humiliating, demanding. Determined to master the art of dominance, she attends a convention of Adult Babies, joins a spanking society, gets served by sissy maids, learns how to penetrate a man with a strap-on device, rides a human horse steered by a penis lead, dates a wealthy man who craves electroshocks to his genitals, and acquires a slave. She details many aspects of femdom including ClubFEM (with its slogan Women Enslaving Men), male chastity devices, a BDSM resort where women rule, consensual slavery and findom (financial domination).